Wednesday, July 30, 2008
Tuesday, July 29, 2008
Well there has been some drama around these parts this past week. It happens the same way every time pretty much. Someone says stuff, someone gets mad, no longer friends; you know the deal. It all just seems very immature in my opinion. I know what it is like to be on the low end of a friendship. You think everything is going fine. Then they find something out about you that they don't approve of, then bam! They say goodbye in an instant. I don't get that. I was and am the same person. Nothing has changed except your view of me. Why are people so eager to let a good thing go? No one is perfect, but why run away from your insecurities. Why not face them and get them out in the open? That is what a mature secure adult would do. You know what you are? An ostrich. Go ahead and hide your head in the sand. Hide from the problems and issues. Don't deal with them. Keep them inside you emo child. Go cry to your mommy. Have a tantrum. You seem to thrive on stress and drama anyway, so that is what you create in your life. And you know, even though I never liked that about you, I never said fuck you I'm leaving. I said ok, that's how you are, and I care about you so it's cool with me. I can be tolerant of your stupidity and immaturity, but oh no you can't be tolerant of me apparently and the choices I make. Well guess what? Nothing you say or do is going to change who I am. If you feel scared or uneasy around me, that is your own problem, and I guess we never really were friends. It is all made clear now. Too bad for you. I really feel sorry for you. You blew it.
Tuesday, July 15, 2008
Throughout life there are various influences on a person's life. These influences can be so powerful that they can hinder free choice and personal decision-making. In fact, there seems to be very little time in life that a person is truly free to make their own decisions. Obviously we are a product of genetics and our environment. Those influences make us who we are. What I am talking about is when the those influences start to run our life. It is at this point that a person may feel powerless to do anything with their life, which can't be farther from the truth. Here are the main influences for people that I have noticed listed from early in life to later in life:
government (laws, taxes)
These influences permeate throughout life, so there is little time where a person isn't under some kind of influence. This is manifest in the typical mid-life crisis that the majority of the population experiences. At this time in life, people are usually faced with the decision to continue doing what others want or finally shed those influences and do whatever makes them happy. Obviously I realize that you cannot be free from other people's influence on your life. We live in this world and there will always be people here. What I am trying to describe is recognizing that these things influence our decisions but ultimately the choice should be ours. Whenever these influences seek to force or coerce us, a red flag should go up. No matter the pressure, no organization, group or person can or should try to make a choice for another person. I ultimately believe in each person's autonomy to run their own lives. In this society, people don't even have the free choice to kill themselves which in my opinion = LAME.